
Your Inner Light Sanctuary Blog
Here, you’ll find reflections and soulful guidance to support your emotional healing and inner connection. These posts are here to nourish you between our sessions - offering moments of insight, inspiration, and grounding.
Conquer Your Fears
Reading inspiration to support you through those dark days and help the light shine in.
Perfectionism, control, and self-worth are deeply connected. This post explores how the fear of being seen, exposing our shame, people-pleasing, and the need for approval drive perfectionist tendencies and mask our inner turmoil.
How do self-sabotage, comparison and procrastination hold you back in your life? In this blog post we explore these three ego behaviours, the link between fear and low self-worth, and how we can overcome them.
Explore the impact of shame, self-judgment, and self-criticism on self-worth, and discover how compassion and love can help you release these limiting emotions. Learn from powerful quotes on shame and begin your journey to emotional healing and greater self-acceptance.
Discover the emotional journey of quitting Instagram and the fears that come with it: fear of missing out, losing relevance, and making mistakes. Perfect for entrepreneurs and individuals seeking balance and freedom from the pressures of online visibility.
In this post I reflect on my five years of sobriety and the decision I recently made to drink once more. I explore the emotions of guilt, self-awareness, and personal growth, sharing how I learned to trust myself and embrace freedom from labels, control and fear.
Delving into the emotional highs and lows of life and spiritual awakening, sharing how to embrace the emotions that are ready to be released for healing and growth, and offering support to those on a journey of self-discovery and emotional resilience.
When we’re at the crossroads of life, having to make a decision and choose a path forwards, it can often feel hard to lean into the fear of the unknown and trust we’ll pick the best option. So, what are three things to remember so we can come out of fear and indecision, and into an energy of faith and excitement about the journey ahead?
When we're in a state of emotional turmoil it can feel overwhelming and out of control. Yet big emotions are an opportunity for us to access and alchemise the deep subconscious programming to create powerful shifts in our life.
Investing in yourself creates space for your potential to bloom, opening doors and inviting in growth to take you to the next level. Yet, why are we so resistant to change and how can we feel worthy of receiving the support we deserve and let go of the fears holding us back?
We are all capable of doing incredible things in our lives but so often we find ourselves stuck in fear and self-doubt. So, how can we begin to free ourselves from these limiting beliefs and truly achieve our dreams?
All of us can struggle to start something new, yet do we really understand why? Sometimes it's a fear of failure or it can be a fear of success. Ultimately we need to confront the fear that is stopping us from fulfilling our potential.
Hiding keeps us safe but it also keeps us playing small. So, how can we step out into the unknown, being vulnerable and open about who we truly are, embracing our true authentic selves without fear of judgement or shame?
Being sensitive has often been seen as a weakness but when we harness it it becomes our strength. We just need to learn to ground our sensitivity and find balance so we don't become overwhelmed and burnt out from this world.
How do we manage the fears we have, such as the fear of failure, fear of success and fear of change? Here I breakdown what fear really is and how to 'just do it' to defeat it.
Change, like an ocean storm, also has the potential to turn our lives upside down. And this is where change can be so golden. If we allow ourselves to feel the fear and uncertainty and ride the storm we grow in resilience and self-esteem.
Change can be deeply uncomfortable. So much so, that we want to hide in a past version of ourselves or skip forward to the safe, familiar and known. Yet, the point of suffering and change is where the magic happens, and one we want to embrace.
Now that we're healing the self-esteem wound there's too many of us falling prey to the marketing that tells us we can all be millionaires. This is yet another spiritual trap, hiding our real emotional needs under the illusion that money can meet them.
When we do things that scare us the universe rewards us for taking risks on its behalf, our self-esteem raises considerably and we open ourselves up to our power, potential and possibilities. How can we use our fear for positive change in our lives?
There's 3 things you need to know about procrastination. Firstly, you need to break the task down. Secondly, you need to understand your fear. Thirdly, you need to shift your energy. Here are all the ways to understand why you're procrastinating, and how to take action against it.
Fear can get wildly out of control when left inside of us but there are two simple ways to overcome fear; one is through sharing the fear, and the other is through action. When we confront our fears in this way, we can move through them and return to a state of confidence and joy in our lives.
Pulling yourself out of a state of apathy involves rediscovering your inspiration, creativity, passion and drive. We lose these things when our energy is low and life feels like a strain. Here's how you can rediscover your energy and passion for your life.
Restore a sense of mindfulness through these key grounding techniques, promoting a sense of balance, releasing stress and shifting stagnant energy.
Is fear holding you back? The frequency of fear is self-perpetuating, it keeps us in a stress state and limits our immune function.
When I experience stress and anxiety I write a letter to myself full of love and compassion to help release the fear and lift me up.
Fear of judgement is a deeply rooted human emotion. One that hides behind other surface level emotions, tricking us into believing it's not really there. But it is, and most of us aren't even aware of its existance.
Discover Your True Self
Know that you’re not on your own as you navigate through the challenges and trials of life.
Discover how to release emotional hardship and break free from the cycle of self-punishment. This post explores the deeper roots of suffering, offering gentle insights and practical steps to support your emotional healing journey and spiritual awakening journey.
Here I explore the three powerful life decisions that support long-term emotional healing and spiritual growth: feeling your emotions in the moment, speaking your truth sooner, and taking action on difficult tasks before procrastination sets in.
Emotional manipulators are like energy vampires, rather than taking your energy they emotionally manipulate you in subtle ways to feel in control. In this post I explore how to recognise, and walk away from, those people who want to manipulate you.
Discover 10 powerful Divine Healing charts I use with clients to release hidden blocks, clear trauma, and unlock change. Learn how these tools help shift deep subconscious patterns, self-sabotage, and emotional programming.
Many well-meaning spiritual clichés, like 'just trust the process' or 'just let go', can feel invalidating when oversimplified. This post explores why we use them, how they impact others, and how there might be more impactful ways we can support people, beyond a well-meaning spiritual phrase.
Why do we overeat or engage in excess? This post explores the emotional, psychological, and spiritual reasons behind overeating: how it provides safety, numbs emotions, and helps us feel grounded. Learn how to shift these patterns and find deeper healing.
Many of us have a vision for our lives, but hidden blocks keep us stuck and playing small. This post explores four key obstacles: a lack of grounding, trying to stay in control, impatience, and limiting beliefs, that prevent our growth and expansion.
Letting go, especially of people and the past, can be deeply challenging, but it’s a vital part of growth and healing. However, change is a constant in our life and letting go is a part of that. This blog explores why letting go is so hard and how to honour the process.
Struggling with financial security, a scarcity mindset and balance? I recently took an abundance training that revealed three powerful shifts in my mindset. While I’m no expert, I’m sharing my biggest takeaways for you here.
Discover how fear and self-sabotage can hold us back from our dreams and how to gently reframe those fears into opportunities. Learn practical steps to question your fears, embrace possibilities, and move forward with confidence and compassion.
Discover the transformative power of the 11-2 energy in your soul contract. Explore how this sensitive number guides emotional resilience, nurtures growth, and helps you navigate life's challenges with confidence and joy.
In this blog, we dive into how stress and trauma affect our body and mind, causing us to react instead of respond, get stuck in freeze mode, struggle to find joy and suffer with symptoms. Explore how unresolved trauma can cause us to stay in survival mode, and recommendations to get out of it.
Explore the impact of shame, self-judgment, and self-criticism on self-worth, and discover how compassion and love can help you release these limiting emotions. Learn from powerful quotes on shame and begin your journey to emotional healing and greater self-acceptance.
Discover the five books that have supported me on my personal emotional healing journey, and transformed my life. These five books have helped me to build trust, emotional resilience, confidence and fearlessness in my life, and I hope they can inspire you in the same way.
Explore the profound healing potential of the seven energy in your soul contract. Discover how to embrace your authenticity, connect with others, and navigate your journey of self-discovery through healing the heart and letting yourself be seen.
Release attachments to your past, overcome comparison, and embrace your authentic self through learning how to release grief and fear holding you back. This blog offers insights and steps to live fully in the present and align with your unique path.
Discover the keys to building emotional resilience and navigating stress with greater ease through understanding the role of trauma, self-worth and our nervous system. Perfect for those seeking deeper self-awareness and practical strategies for inner peace.
Feeling stuck? This post explores how to find freedom by overcoming fear, breaking free of role expectations, and letting go of comparison. Learn how embracing change can help you create an authentic and aligned life where you feel free to be your true self.
Exploring the challenges of setting boundaries in friendships, this post reflects on guilt, social expectations, and the journey to embrace authentic relationships that truly nourish the soul
Exploring the impact of 12-3 Soul Contract energy on impatience, urgency, and burnout, and how this energy drives avoidance, addiction, and a fast-paced life. Explore your own Soul Contract to gain greater self-awareness and achieve personal healing and growth.
Discover how to find balance between goals and joy, and find out how letting go embracing the present can lead to greater fulfilment, emotional resilience, and a more meaningful life.
Divine Healing is a powerful way of helping the body release trauma, sabotaging beliefs, ego agendas and low frequency programmes, through grace, love, self-awareness and connection to the Universe and our Higher Self.
Falling in love is something that we all long for, yet how can we move past the emotional blocks that get in the way of us experiencing the love we deserve? This is my story and I hope by sharing it you’ll see how capable and worthy of love you truly are.
The language of the body is emotions and in Traditional Chinese Medicine the understanding of where emotions are stored in our body is based on the five element chart. So, where does emotional stress lodge itself in the body?
You don’t need to heal because you are perfect, whole and complete just as you are. The only thing we need to do is to release and clear the trauma that is stuck in our fields and distorting our vision, making us chase things outside of ourselves.
Resentment is program within us all, born from a belief in lack and limitation as well as a feeling of being undeserving and unworthy of abundance. So, how can we understand it on a deeper level and release ourselves from it's shadow?
Comparison is something that sneaks up on all of us, so how can we free ourselves from the negative spiral of comparison and come back to remembering and appreciating how truly wonderful we are?
On your path of spiritual growth you might notice some signs and symptoms which show you that you are opening up to a higher state consciousness. Here, I share the five signs that I've noticed along my way.
If you’re feeling stuck in a situation that doesn’t feel freeing for your soul, let me share some of the ways you can free yourself and fall back into alignment with yourself, so you can reconnect to your peace and trust that all is well.
If you're constantly rushing around feeling exhausted and burnt out, understanding the energies in your Soul Contract, as well as the subconscious programming keeping you busy, may help you slow down.
Discover Your Confidence
Read on to discover your inner confidence and courage that is just waiting to shine through.
Emotional manipulators are like energy vampires, rather than taking your energy they emotionally manipulate you in subtle ways to feel in control. In this post I explore how to recognise, and walk away from, those people who want to manipulate you.
Explore the journey of comparison and discover the three layers of comparison - strangers, peers, and ourselves - and learn how to embrace self-acceptance and cultivate awareness for a more fulfilling life.
This blog post explores the interconnectedness of confidence, self-worth, and self-acceptance. It outlines practical steps for nurturing these qualities, such as building inner awareness, practicing self-compassion, and letting go of comparisons.
Limiting beliefs can hold us back in life, often without us realising. In this post, I share a simple, personal process to help you uncover and release those beliefs. With practical steps and gentle reflection, you can clear the blocks keeping you stuck and start creating a life that feels more aligned and free.
Discover how to overcome fear, procrastination, and self-doubt when starting new projects. Exploring procrastination, fear of failure, and the role of self-worth in building true confidence and bringing your ideas to life.
If you are sensitive, gentle and empathetic it can feel really hard to say no to others and stand up and assert yourself. The reason why boundaries can feel hard is all to do with the energies in your Soul Contract, which is exactly what I explore in this blog post.
When you start healing miracles can happen, your relationship with yourself and your body changes and you start to shine your light and welcome in new possibilities and opportunities into your life.
If you're lacking confidence and have low self-esteem here are three ways that have helped me to come out of hiding and overcome the fear that is stopping me from realising my potential.
All of us can struggle to start something new, yet do we really understand why? Sometimes it's a fear of failure or it can be a fear of success. Ultimately we need to confront the fear that is stopping us from fulfilling our potential.
It can take us a lifetime to truly know our self-worth, yet it's the challenging life experiences that we encounter along the way that encourage us overcome them so we can land in a place of clarity, wisdom and self-compassion.
Hiding keeps us safe but it also keeps us playing small. So, how can we step out into the unknown, being vulnerable and open about who we truly are, embracing our true authentic selves without fear of judgement or shame?
Being sensitive has often been seen as a weakness but when we harness it it becomes our strength. We just need to learn to ground our sensitivity and find balance so we don't become overwhelmed and burnt out from this world.
Like wolf in sheep’s' clothing, energy vampires sneak past our boundaries and take what isn't theirs. We can either continue letting this happen, or stay vigilant to the signs and erect our boundaries to keep them away, the choice is ours.
Now that we're healing the self-esteem wound there's too many of us falling prey to the marketing that tells us we can all be millionaires. This is yet another spiritual trap, hiding our real emotional needs under the illusion that money can meet them.
The secret to manifesting is about aligning with a greater force. It is not some force that we need to control and neither is it a force that controls us. It is not about making demands, and neither is it about surrendering ourselves completely.
Life picks up when you pick yourself up, so what changes can you make to invite this transformation in? Through leaning into compassion, gratitude and validation you can shift out of feeling down and out to feeling powerful and purposeful once again.
I was never an alcoholic, but in the years leading up to my final decision to cut alcohol out of my life for good, like a bad ex boyfriend, I started to have a funny feeling around alcohol. Drinking was becoming slightly tainted. Something that was fast reaching its sell-by date.
When we're doing well in life we feel good. But, what happens when those things that have been propping up our self-esteem vanish? How can we love ourselves at our lowest?
Instagram has been eating away at my joy and eroding my confidence, so I made the decision to leave. This is my story.
The pain of rejection can be hard to handle, but how can we understand it in a different light and give ourselves some comfort and reassurance that we're enough exactly as we are? This is a post all about recognising our value and self-worth.
When you feel like a failure you're just having a bad day. You might also be stuck in comparison and putting too much pressure on yourself. So here's something you might want to read to help shift your mindset.
There's 3 things you need to know about procrastination. Firstly, you need to break the task down. Secondly, you need to understand your fear. Thirdly, you need to shift your energy. Here are all the ways to understand why you're procrastinating, and how to take action against it.
Comparison is deeply-rooted in human nature, but how can we avoid it to stay fulfilled and happy in our lives? In this article, I'll show you how to let go of comparing yourselves to others, so you can find more joy and freedom in your life.
We’ve all heard the terms extrovert and introvert but who’s heard of ambivert? In this post I explore what it really means to be an introvert, an extrovert or an ambivert, and how this can affect our energy as empaths.
Pulling yourself out of a state of apathy involves rediscovering your inspiration, creativity, passion and drive. We lose these things when our energy is low and life feels like a strain. Here's how you can rediscover your energy and passion for your life.
Low self esteem stops us from moving forwards in life, so here are four ways to improve low self esteem. True self-worth takes time to build, but here are 4 simple ways to start that journey towards confidence.
I recently saw a client who had a rash all over her body that was driving her mad. Our skin is our barrier against the world, so when it erupts we know that our boundaries are being challanged. So, why is is so hard to say no and where does this behaviour come from?
Empaths often suffer from low self esteem which attracts energy vampires. Learning to express negative emotions is an important part of setting boundaries.
Many of us are existing in toxic work environments, not knowing how to leave. When we understand why we find ourselves in them we can begin to light up the path to change and letting go.
The power of authenticity means conquering low self-esteem so you can step out of comparison and into alignment with your intuition.
Soul Seekers
Discover how to understand yourself on the deepest level, getting to know both your ego and your soul.
Your Soul Contract is a spiritual map based on your birth name that reveals your soul’s journey, challenges, and purpose. Here, I explore the push and pull dynamics of each number, revealing the deeper meanings, and share the ways in which a live reading can bring even greater insight.
Discover the five most common questions people ask during a Soul Contract reading and how the answers can support your spiritual growth and awakening. This post explores soul purpose, life lessons, personal gifts, obstacles, and decision-making through the lens of your unique Soul Contract.
Where do our blocks around money come from and how can we heal them? This post explores how the energies in your Soul Contract reveals the deeper roots of your relationship with money, abundance, and self-worth.
This post explores the journey to empowerment through understanding Soul Contract energies, as well as the challenges of asserting power, overcoming past trauma, and creating healthy boundaries. By tapping into the deeper understanding of power within, we can reclaim our inherent strength.
Your Soul Contract is an agreement your soul made in this lifetime to work through a certain set of experiences, broken down into karma, talents, goals and your soul destiny. Here, I show you how to understand you Soul Contract.
Discover the fascinating energy dynamics between key Soul Contract numbers. In this post, I explore common number pairings, revealing their unique challenges and lessons - perfect if you're seeking deeper clarity and awareness of your own chart.
Embarking on a spiritual journey can feel overwhelming and intense. Yet it can also feel exciting and transformative. Whether you're just beginning or deep into your spiritual awakening, this guide explores the essence of self-discovery, divine connection, and grounding in a shifting reality.
Discover the meaning of your numbers in your Soul Contract in this handy guide. Your Soul Contract is like a map that shows where you’ve been, where you are, and where you’re headed. Learn how the 22 divine energies linked to your name can guide your growth and help you reconnect with your true self.
Before booking your Soul Contract Reading, consider how it can deepen your self-awareness, highlight possibilities, empower your choices, and guide your personal growth.
Discover the insights of a Soul Contract Reading, uncovering how your name’s unique vibration shapes your life’s challenges and gifts. Embrace self-discovery, activate hidden talents, and align with yourself on your spiritual and emotional journey.
Explore the profound healing potential of the seven energy in your soul contract. Discover how to embrace your authenticity, connect with others, and navigate your journey of self-discovery through healing the heart and letting yourself be seen.
Explore the transformative energy of the 8 frequency in your Soul Contract. Discover how to embrace your emotions, establish meaningful connections, and navigate life's challenges with love and compassion.
A Soul Contract Reading is a powerful and catalytic way to understand the hidden dynamics in your relationships. Soul Contract Readings can be healing and empowering for you, as you understand the karmic clashes and bonds between you and the people in your life.
Divine Healing is a powerful way of helping the body release trauma, sabotaging beliefs, ego agendas and low frequency programmes, through grace, love, self-awareness and connection to the Universe and our Higher Self.
Discover the 7 secrets hidden within your Soul Contract that can help you gain a deeper understanding of who you truly are and support you as you move forwards in your life.
Can your Soul Contract show you your life purpose or is there another way of understanding your soul destiny? What if there is no singular soul purpose but a culmination of reasons as to why you're here and what you're capable of achieving?
What is the difference between the ego and the soul? The ego drives thoughts, words and actions from a place of fear and lack. The soul drives them from love, nourishing our self esteem.
A Soul Contract Reading gives you the truth of your life, helping you to move through your challenges, identify your talents and reach your goals, working like a map that you can use time and time again along your way.
Comparison is something that sneaks up on all of us, so how can we free ourselves from the negative spiral of comparison and come back to remembering and appreciating how truly wonderful we are?
On your path of spiritual growth you might notice some signs and symptoms which show you that you are opening up to a higher state consciousness. Here, I share the five signs that I've noticed along my way.
Many of us on the spiritual path suffer from burnout and exhaustion because we're no grounded, we're pushing ourselves to expand too quickly and we're not leaning into love. Here I share a few of the things that play a key role in our spiritual burnout and how to overcome them.
When you start healing miracles can happen, your relationship with yourself and your body changes and you start to shine your light and welcome in new possibilities and opportunities into your life.
If you're feeling trapped, frustrated and stuck in your life, there is always hope in the darkness. Here, I share my story in the hope to inspire you to find your own silver linings, freedom and light to guide you forwards.
If you're a spiritual seeker, wanting to understand your soul destiny and purpose in this lifetime, here I share some things I'm learning on my own journey, using my soul contract as a guide.
When you are ready to go deeper into your journey of self-discovery, your Soul Contract can act as a guide, showing you the light of truth in times of darkness and confusion.
Hiding keeps us safe but it also keeps us playing small. So, how can we step out into the unknown, being vulnerable and open about who we truly are, embracing our true authentic selves without fear of judgement or shame?
So many of us living limited lives, where our souls are suppressed under the expectations of others and society. We can find freedom when we start to really tune into ourselves and the deepest desires of our souls.
A Soul Contract Reading is like a map, showing you the karma you're here to work through, the talents you're here to activate and the goals you're here to accomplish.
The sages say it that suffering is a choice, yet suffering is inevitable for there there is much that we must let go of and unlearn before we understand how to ease ourselves out of suffering. It's all too easy to spiritually bypass suffering without realising it is an essential part of our reality that will grant us our spiritual and emotional freedom.
Change can be deeply uncomfortable. So much so, that we want to hide in a past version of ourselves or skip forward to the safe, familiar and known. Yet, the point of suffering and change is where the magic happens, and one we want to embrace.
Here I explore the three powerful life decisions that support long-term emotional healing and spiritual growth: feeling your emotions in the moment, speaking your truth sooner, and taking action on difficult tasks before procrastination sets in.