Welcome to my blog
I’m Antonya and this is where I write about my journey to becoming the most confident and authentic version of who I came here to be. Explore my blog posts below or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for, use the categories or search box below.
Are you feeling trapped? Here’s a little story for you
If you're feeling trapped, frustrated and stuck in your life, there is always hope in the darkness. Here, I share my story in the hope to inspire you to find your own silver linings, freedom and light to guide you forwards.
Ten things I’m learning on my path to finding my soul destiny
If you're a spiritual seeker, wanting to understand your soul destiny and purpose in this lifetime, here I share some things I'm learning on my own journey, using my soul contract as a guide.
How to find the confidence and courage to start something new
All of us can struggle to start something new, yet do we really understand why? Sometimes it's a fear of failure or it can be a fear of success. Ultimately we need to confront the fear that is stopping us from fulfilling our potential.
Using your soul contract as a guide
When you are ready to go deeper into your journey of self-discovery, your Soul Contract can act as a guide, showing you the light of truth in times of darkness and confusion.
Do you know your worth?
It can take us a lifetime to truly know our self-worth, yet it's the challenging life experiences that we encounter along the way that encourage us overcome them so we can land in a place of clarity, wisdom and self-compassion.
Why you’re overwhelmed and what to do about it
Many of us are struggling with feeling overwhelmed, burnt out and stressed, and sometimes we need a reminder to slow down and calm down so we can begin to look at the deeper root cause underlying our overwhelm.
How to come out of hiding
Hiding keeps us safe but it also keeps us playing small. So, how can we step out into the unknown, being vulnerable and open about who we truly are, embracing our true authentic selves without fear of judgement or shame?
How to navigate the world as a sensitive soul
Being sensitive has often been seen as a weakness but when we harness it it becomes our strength. We just need to learn to ground our sensitivity and find balance so we don't become overwhelmed and burnt out from this world.
As Nike says 'just do it' to defeat fear
How do we manage the fears we have, such as the fear of failure, fear of success and fear of change? Here I breakdown what fear really is and how to 'just do it' to defeat it.
3 subtle yet powerful ways to align your life
To live in alignment means to live in a place of acceptance of who you are and where you are in life. Here, I share three subtle yet powerful ways to shift into alignment so you can experience more joy, love, abundance and purpose in your life.
A Handmaid’s warning
Exploring the world of Gilead and how the prophecy of Margaret Atwood, combined with the history of our past, can help us avoid the horror of a future where dystopia and totalitariasm thrive in a world of extremism and fear.
How to free yourself from soul suppression
So many of us living limited lives, where our souls are suppressed under the expectations of others and society. We can find freedom when we start to really tune into ourselves and the deepest desires of our souls.
3 things you learn about yourself in a soul contract reading
A Soul Contract Reading is like a map, showing you the karma you're here to work through, the talents you're here to activate and the goals you're here to accomplish.
The wonder of suffering and the key to letting go
The sages say it that suffering is a choice, yet suffering is inevitable for there there is much that we must let go of and unlearn before we understand how to ease ourselves out of suffering. It's all too easy to spiritually bypass suffering without realising it is an essential part of our reality that will grant us our spiritual and emotional freedom.
I’m on the edge of burnout (and this is why)
We all have unconscious conditioning, patterns and behaviour that drives us to the state of overwhelm and burnout. But, one of the keys to unlocking the answers is to delve into our soul contract which can help explain so much about why we are the way we are.
Feel the fear and ride the storm of change
Change, like an ocean storm, also has the potential to turn our lives upside down. And this is where change can be so golden. If we allow ourselves to feel the fear and uncertainty and ride the storm we grow in resilience and self-esteem.
How to recognise energy vampires
Like wolf in sheep’s' clothing, energy vampires sneak past our boundaries and take what isn't theirs. We can either continue letting this happen, or stay vigilant to the signs and erect our boundaries to keep them away, the choice is ours.
Learning the lessons of love
We all have fears, insecurities and blocks that sabotage our ability to love and be loved. Whether it's learned from our parents, past relationships or something within us. This is why learning to love ourselves from within is one of the hardest things of all.
How to embrace the alchemy of change
Change can be deeply uncomfortable. So much so, that we want to hide in a past version of ourselves or skip forward to the safe, familiar and known. Yet, the point of suffering and change is where the magic happens, and one we want to embrace.
Are you overstretching into overwhelm?
Without even realising it's happened, we can stretch ourselves so thin, trying to do it all and have it all, that we can snap, which is exactly what happened to me.