Welcome to my blog
I’m Antonya and this is where I write about my journey to becoming the most confident and authentic version of who I came here to be. Explore my blog posts below or if you’re not sure what you’re looking for, use the categories or search box below.
5 Books That Will Transform Your Healing Journey
Discover the five books that have supported me on my personal emotional healing journey, and transformed my life. These five books have helped me to build trust, emotional resilience, confidence and fearlessness in my life, and I hope they can inspire you in the same way.
Seven Steps to Confidence and Self-Acceptance
This blog post explores the interconnectedness of confidence, self-worth, and self-acceptance. It outlines practical steps for nurturing these qualities, such as building inner awareness, practicing self-compassion, and letting go of comparisons.
How to Let Go of Past Identities and Embrace Your True Self
Release attachments to your past, overcome comparison, and embrace your authentic self through learning how to release grief and fear holding you back. This blog offers insights and steps to live fully in the present and align with your unique path.
Building Emotional Resilience Through Understanding Trauma, Stress and Self-Worth
Discover the keys to building emotional resilience and navigating stress with greater ease through understanding the role of trauma, self-worth and our nervous system. Perfect for those seeking deeper self-awareness and practical strategies for inner peace.
How to start when you're scared of failing
Discover how to overcome fear, procrastination, and self-doubt when starting new projects. Exploring procrastination, fear of failure, and the role of self-worth in building true confidence and bringing your ideas to life.
3 signs you're in survival mode (& what to do about it)
Feeling trapped in survival mode? Discover key signs like disrupted sleep and heightened reactions, along with practical ways to shift from stress to balance, restore calm, and build lasting resilience
Understanding Your Relationships Through Your Soul Contract
A Soul Contract Reading is a powerful and catalytic way to understand the hidden dynamics in your relationships. Soul Contract Readings can be healing and empowering for you, as you understand the karmic clashes and bonds between you and the people in your life.
This Is Why I Find Friendships So Hard
Exploring the challenges of setting boundaries in friendships, this post reflects on guilt, social expectations, and the journey to embrace authentic relationships that truly nourish the soul
Why You Can’t Slow Down Even Though You Want To
Exploring the impact of 12-3 Soul Contract energy on impatience, urgency, and burnout, and how this energy drives avoidance, addiction, and a fast-paced life. Explore your own Soul Contract to gain greater self-awareness and achieve personal healing and growth.
7 secrets hidden within your Soul Contract
Discover the 7 secrets hidden within your Soul Contract that can help you gain a deeper understanding of who you truly are and support you as you move forwards in your life.
How to fall in love
Falling in love is something that we all long for, yet how can we move past the emotional blocks that get in the way of us experiencing the love we deserve? This is my story and I hope by sharing it you’ll see how capable and worthy of love you truly are.
Can your Soul Contract show you your soul purpose?
Can your Soul Contract show you your life purpose or is there another way of understanding your soul destiny? What if there is no singular soul purpose but a culmination of reasons as to why you're here and what you're capable of achieving?
What’s the difference between the ego and the soul?
What is the difference between the ego and the soul? The ego drives thoughts, words and actions from a place of fear and lack. The soul drives them from love, nourishing our self esteem.
What happens in a Soul Contract Reading?
A Soul Contract Reading gives you the truth of your life, helping you to move through your challenges, identify your talents and reach your goals, working like a map that you can use time and time again along your way.
How to keep your boundaries when they’re being challenged
If you are sensitive, gentle and empathetic it can feel really hard to say no to others and stand up and assert yourself. The reason why boundaries can feel hard is all to do with the energies in your Soul Contract, which is exactly what I explore in this blog post.
You don’t need to heal (and this is why)
You don’t need to heal because you are perfect, whole and complete just as you are. The only thing we need to do is to release and clear the trauma that is stuck in our fields and distorting our vision, making us chase things outside of ourselves.
How to read your Soul Contract
Your Soul Contract is an agreement your soul made in this lifetime to work through a certain set of experiences, broken down into karma, talents, goals and your soul destiny. Here, I show you how to understand you Soul Contract.
Feeling stuck? Here's 5 ways to unstick yourself
If you’re feeling stuck in a situation that doesn’t feel freeing for your soul, let me share some of the ways you can free yourself and fall back into alignment with yourself, so you can reconnect to your peace and trust that all is well.
How to slow down when you're always in a rush
If you're constantly rushing around feeling exhausted and burnt out, understanding the energies in your Soul Contract, as well as the subconscious programming keeping you busy, may help you slow down.
How to avoid burnout on your spiritual journey
Many of us on the spiritual path suffer from burnout and exhaustion because we're no grounded, we're pushing ourselves to expand too quickly and we're not leaning into love. Here I share a few of the things that play a key role in our spiritual burnout and how to overcome them.